Bring Us Together
In her book, Bring Us Together, Marjorie Holmes prays, “Oh, God, we go through life so lonely, needing what other people can give us, yet ashamed to show that need. And other people go through life so lonely, hungering for what it would be such a joy for us to give. Dear God, please bring us together, the people who need each other, who can help each other, and would so enjoy each other.”
Is this not the prayer of the human heart, searching for the security, freedom, love, and joy that only life in community with others can provide? It is the continuing prayer of my heart, and I hope it is also your prayer. We do know that it is the prayer of Jesus’ heart, for he prayed “I have given them the glory that you gave me that they may be one as we are one – I in them and you in me – so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.” (John 17:22-23).
When I reflect on my younger years, I gratefully remember the many enriching experiences of community that I felt within my church and neighborhood. But today, such experiences of community have been diminished in our nation. This loss provides fertile soil for the seeds of distrust, disrespect, and disregard for others to grow, which in turn leads to multiple fears and much violence. “Dear God, please bring us together.”
One of the most contagious and deadly personality choices in Western culture is individualism, which diminishes the value or need for community. Individualism is the sinful characteristic of a human heart that is going away from God and his glorious intent for every human being. Not only does individualism blind a person toward seeing a godly perspective of life, but it also magnifies fears and increases isolation, and isolation breeds selfishness and greed.
The biblical record tells us that God purposefully created every human heart with the need to belong, that is, to be accepted, included, and cared for in community with other caring human beings. When Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment is, he answered by saying, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and first commandment. And the second is like it; You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
The first Christian community, following the Pentecost event, caught this vision and became a fellowship of sharing at all levels of life, spiritual, social, and economic, which included shelter, clothing, and food. We could say that they “walked their gospel talk” with a public display of loving others as themselves with a sincere and generous “I care for you” concern. Jesus made it clear in his teachings that obedience to the second greatest commandment would be the basic observable identity of his followers. “Dear God, please bring us together.”
The second commandment is also the most important value of personal freedom. And I am deeply troubled that many Americans, who call themselves Christian, have forgotten or willfully debunked the biblical concept of freedom which is a communal experience and not individualistic. The biblical idea of responsibility and concern for the other, be it family, co-worker, or neighbor is sadly divorced from their concept of personal freedom. And the consequences of this selfish right to freedom are evident all around us every day in various devilish ways.
The freedom we have as a follower of Jesus Christ, is not a lawless, irresponsible anarchy, but a trustworthy, self-disciplined, responsible freedom of loving and serving others. This was and is God’s intention and purpose in breathing his Spirit and physical life into us at our birth. This was Jesus’ intention and purpose in going to the cross for us. “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.” And this is the Holy Spirit’s intention and purpose in taking up residence and abiding within us. “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”
Yes, being a follower of Jesus is to experience an authentic, liberating freedom of living in community where love, joy, and peace; that is, where caring/sharing, thankfulness/generosity, and respect/security are equally experienced. Let us give serious thought to this as we celebrate our national freedom during the coming weeks. “Dear God, please bring us together.” Amen!
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Ray M. Geigley – “Healing Rays of Righteousness” – www.geigler13.wordpress.com – June 18, 2025