God Is Love
A most amazing Scriptural teaching is found in the 4th chapter of John’s first letter, which he wrote to instruct and encourage the early Christians. In verse 8 of this chapter, John tells us that “God is love.” Those three little words get to the heart of what John believed about God’s character. They tell us that God is pure self-giving love and that He cares deeply about you and me.
But how do we know this to be true? How can we know with certainty that God genuinely loves us?
I am reminded of a story out of Roman history. The Roman army had subdued the kingdom of Armenia, and now the king of Armenia stood before the conquering general. The king fell to his knees and pled with the Roman general: “Do whatever you wish with me, but I beg you to spare the lives of my family.” The Roman general graciously spared the life of both the king and his family.
Sometime later, the king of Armenia asked his wife what her impression of the Roman conqueror was, and she responded, “I never saw him.” Astonished, the king asked, “How could you have failed to see him?” “He was only a few feet away. What were you looking at?” With eyes full of tears, the queen replied, “I saw only you, the one who was willing to die so that I might live.”
We, who have committed our life to Christ, can put ourselves in that story, for we know what it is to have someone love us so much that they willingly die so we can live. Such remarkable love is at the very core of God’s character and heart.
Never has there been a more awesome display of LOVE than on Good Friday, when Jesus took our sins upon himself and carried them to the cross. And never has there been a more awesome display of the power of LOVE than on Easter morning, when God raised Christ from the dead and he emerged victorious from the tomb.
This is the reality that John points to when he writes in verse 9 that “This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only son into the world that we might live through him.” And in verse 10 he adds, “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”
I fondly remember the bedtime ritual of our small children coming to me for a kiss and a goodnight. Each time I would say “I love you” and they would respond, “I love you, too, Daddy.” This bedtime ritual later became our good-bye ritual as they became teenagers, and a similar ritual continues today.
I have no doubt that my children dearly love me. But I can recall a time when love was not the issue. They needed Mom and Dad. They were utterly and totally dependent on us. Their love for us as their parents came later. It was and is a learned emotion. And that learning was in response to our greater love for them in their growing, maturing years.
From the very first sight of our children, the first touch, the first sound of a cry, the first cradling, I was deeply in love with them. I loved them simply because they were mine. They did not earn it. They did not necessarily deserve it. And they demanded a lot from me and were costly to me in both time and money. But above and beyond any of that, they were my children. And nothing they could ever do or become would stop me from loving them.
With their growing up in that environment of love, they began to love me and their mother as their parents. And now, when they say “I love you” we know they speak from their heart, because we are frequently the recipient of their many acts of love.
In verse 19, John says God’s parental relationship with us is like our relationship with our children. We love (God) because he first loved us.” And nothing we could ever do will stop God from loving us.
But there is something more. As my children continued to grow and mature, I modeled and encouraged certain expectations of them. I desired that they deeply love the Lord Jesus and others, being honest, fair, and kind in all their relationships, being Christian in every way.
And as God’s children we are likewise greeted with expectations from our Heavenly Parent. John believes that the implications of God’s amazing love is clear. “Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” (v.11).
IF we are experiencing God’s atoning forgiveness and love through Christ, and IF we are experiencing God’s love through the indwelling presence of the God’s Spirit, then we are commanded to love others. “And he has given us this command; Whoever loves God must also love his brother.” (v.21). There is no wiggle room in that command.
Echoing John’s teaching letter, Mother Teresa urges us to “Spread love everywhere you go; first of all, in your own home. Give love to your children, to your wife or husband, to a next-door neighbor. … Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God’s kindness; kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm greeting.”
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Ray M. Geigley